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"He Just Sits Down A Lot"

Bill Cawley and his family

Bill Cawley and his family

By: Amy Wilson

Name: Bill Cawley
Injury: C6, C7.
Mechanism of Injury: Diving Accident
Date of Injury: 1992

For Bill Cawley, life did not start or end with the accident that left him paralyzed from the chest down. In fact, if you were to ask one of his closest friends how the accident changed him, he would reply, "Cawley has not changed; he just sits down a lot."

Since a 1992 diving accident that had left him paralyzed from the chest down, Cawley would agree that, his life has changed, but he hasn’t.

Life after paralysis
At the age of 42, Cawley is a husband, father, successful businessman and a philanthropist (he works to raise money for the Reeve Foundation). However, at the age of 24, Cawley had no idea that he would eventually become all of these things; all he knew was that he was not going to let his condition stop him from trying to.

Cawley recalls, after getting injured, "I knew it was going to change my life, but I wasn’t for a second going to let it change what I wanted from life." This optimistic point of view is what has allowed Cawley to adjust to life after the accident.

In addition to maintaining a successful career, he was also able to expand the social life that he possessed beforehand. Cawley fondly remembers going to a wedding shortly after becoming paralyzed and being the first person to buy a round of beers.

When his friends asked, "How the did you do that?," he simply replied, "I’ve put the beers in some netting under my chair, don’t worry about it, we’re good."

Family Life
While Cawley’s circumstances may have changed after the accident, one thing that stayed the same was his zest for life. In fact, it was Cawley’s refusal to see himself any differently that led him to meet his wife, Liz.

Even though they both were part of the same group of friends, Cawley was one of the few people who was always willing to go out and do something. After they attended a wedding together they realized that they might have found something special with each other. They married two years later.

Despite the tenacity of his indomitable spirit, Cawley admits to having hardships. He reveals that one of the most difficult aspects of his condition is the way it affects those closest to him, especially his family.

As a father, Cawley says, "I worked really, really hard to make sure they never feel like they missed out on anything. That because their Dad is in a wheelchair they don’t do this, or can’t do that."

His children, however, do not seem to feel that they are missing out on anything. In fact, they seem more concerned that their father might someday be able to walk again. When asked by her father over breakfast one morning, how she would feel if he started walking again, Cawley’s daughter, Liza-Jane, replied, "Well, if you walk, can you still make us our Eggo’s?"

Walking Is No Guarantee
While Cawley’s oldest child may have been most concerned with the fate of her breakfast, when asked how walking again might affect his life, Cawley was ready with a much more insightful answer.

Cawley says, "Walking does not guarantee you a good life. Nothing guarantees you a good life; it’s what you do with it."

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Learn more on how to live a fun and healthy life through the Paralysis Resource Center’s Living a Healthy Life section. Get more information on fitness, traveling, recreational activities and sports to complement your active lifestyle.

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The Reeve Foundation Paralysis Resource Center Information Specialists are reachable business weekdays, Monday through Friday, toll-free at 800-539-7309 from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm Eastern U.S. Time. International callers use 973-467-8270. You may also schedule a call or send a message online.

This project was supported, in part by grant number 90PR3001, from the U.S. Administration for Community Living, Department of Health and Human Services, Washington, D.C. 20201. Grantees undertaking projects under government sponsorship are encouraged to express freely their findings and conclusions. Points of view or opinions do not, therefore, necessarily represent official Administration for Community Living policy.